Rozi Lovas: “I listen to my instincts when raising children”

Rozi Lovas’s little son, János Misa, will be four years old in May, and his daughter, Mária Izabella, recently celebrated her second birthday.

“Although professional fulfillment is important to me, I am first and foremost a mother, and creating family harmony and harmony is the most important thing. We always keep the children in mind and juggle tasks. We say no to those that are less important, we focus on those that inspire and add something to our lives. If we succeed in creating a balance, it is a good state, but it is not easy, sometimes the string is stretched a little too much. Thoughtful planning, on the other hand, helps a lot. My husband and I usually discuss everything together, paying attention to everyone’s needs,” says the actress, who has been changed a lot by motherhood.

Frictions sometimes occur

“The concept of time has a completely different meaning, it’s all about our children. It is easier for me to say no to one task at a time and I prioritize more strictly. My vision of the future has also been rearranged. Everything else made sense, including the seemingly small details. The answers to questions about what we eat and where we go have already risen to a more conscious level.” Rozi listens to her instincts when raising children.

“When a new baby arrives, you can’t follow principles, at least I couldn’t, I was more aware of what they needed and my husband and I tried to rely on our intuition. According to our experience, thinking in terms of the system makes our lives easier, of course children push the boundaries normally. Friction happens, but we try to create a safe atmosphere and help them find their place in the world. It’s much easier for me since I learned how much time it takes. Whether it’s a change of clothes that needs to be done in enough time for everyone to keep their patience. With two small children, there are exciting, tense situations when everyone wants something different from what is happening. In such cases, we try to find the limit when it is possible to carefully and lovingly hold everyone to their own judgment and explain to the children why what we are doing is good.”

Misa and Iza are very good siblings

Rozi tells us that they like to do gymnastics and go on trips together, but even making breakfast is a great way to start the day. “I believe in the power of attention, if we listen and pay attention to each other, we can create great moments for our family members,” she says.

Although the children of the actress are different personalities, they are very good siblings. “Fortunately, Misa and Iza quickly got along, they can play together, they are cohesive, and they are even forming an alliance against us – says the mother, laughing. – They are different types of individuals, but at the same time, I also believe that since they live in a loving environment, they learn by example. I consider it a blessing that we can experience multigenerational togetherness. Our children can experience that they are loved and cared for everywhere, which will become the basic engine in their personality.”

They both run away with her husband

In addition to motherhood, the protagonist of the series Gólkirályság, shown on RTL on Saturday evenings, also considers it important to be okay with herself and to spend time together with her husband.

“The guidelines I received from my parents: the family as a unit, the importance of love, eating together, cooking, celebrating, loving nature and animals, all of these are values ​​that I brought from my childhood and in our lives I also consider it important. I also consciously pay attention to the fact that there are moments when we evaluate what happens to us, the work invested in it, and in these moments we can safely praise ourselves. It’s good for our family when I’m whole and I can put life’s events in their place.”

According to Rozi, she and her husband work well together because they sometimes run away from home. “I am fulfilled by my family, but I also consider it important that my husband and I are together. We try to keep systems in our lives, which includes dating: cooking together, a walk along the Danube, a jazz concert, or simply sitting down to talk. These things can take a toll on our relationship. But sometimes it’s enough to slow down for a moment after a stressful period and hold each other’s hands.”

Text: Tímea Somlai-Kiss

Photo: Rtl, private